Mar 5, 2007

The Only Man I Truly Love.....

Everytime i contemplated writin a blog, I kept wonderin what i would write abt....there were a 100 different things on my mind....but at the same time, i would draw a blank when i started writin them!!! There was this one thing,though, that i really wanted to pen down from the start....Infact I thought i would start of my bloggin with this one topic, but that dint happn...so herez the time to let u all in my tiny lil secret :)

This is more of a tribute of sorts to this one person who really means more to me than anyone else....im sure a lotta of u who know me would be able to figure out who it is....for the rest of u, Im talkin about none other than my 'Daddykins' [tatz how me n my sis prefer to call him :)]

My pillar of strength....the one person whoz voice makes my heart melt (i can never ever ever ever EVER get bored of his singin!) Ideological differences???we've got plenty! Yet, i can juz never get enough of arguin with him...He finds it funny every time i enter into a heated, passionate arguement about how id like to make my life the way i want it....n tat annoys me, cuz, well..here i am goin all hyper tryin to convince him to see my side of the story, n there he is givin me an amused luk (to be read as: rant all u want, uv still gotta listen to me while under my roof!) Guess tatz what ppl call "Generation Gap"..........

I remember the first time he saw my hair streaked n well, FREAKED! so much for the rhyme though, cuz the picture that day was certainly not musical....he actually wanted me to go back turnin a 3000/- venture into a 6000/- one by colourin it back in black!!i was so furious, i kinda took an oath never to step back into my home ever again....i slept at nite wonderin where to go the next morn! but somewhere in between twilight n dawn, i found myself snugglin bak in his arms lik a baby, never wantin to let go....n i never will....


I so-believe that u can hate as strongly as u luv a person....n wit him tatz juz how it is... There r times i wish one of us would juz vanish into thin air....The funny part is, the stronger that thought gets, the harder i pray to never let him outta my site...Travails of a contradictin mind!Hez the only person who can move me to tears ANYTIME....all iv gotta do is think of his benevolent eyes, n BAM! the dam's broken n a torrent of salt water comes rushin down....Continuin with the contradictin tradition, the storm of tears is followed by the hull of a tiny smile as i continue thinkin of him :)


The first thing my dad told my sis when she started earnin was- "Dont even think of savin anythin for the first 5 yrz!" [but my sis seems to have taken tat a tad bit seriously..hehe!] Ridiculous as it may sound, itz what he preaches... According to him, 'if uv got the dough, spend it...n if u haven't, spend wat lil uv got! cuz ull never know whatz gonna happen tom'....TAT is our family's time-tested Happiness Mantra.....

If Jawaharlal Nehru's collection of letters to his daughter is coveted, so should his....Man, every letter is like a powerful speech of statesmanship....Proddin us to look beyond the frivolous details troubling us n believe in togertheness as a family...It is juz this tat has kept us goin thru tough times....When the goin got tough, the tough did get goin...N all that credit goes juz to him....

His belief in me n my sis strengthened us....Not the type to be judgemental, he stood steadfast by us, at times when all were against....He couldnt care less for the "society" , he juz trusted his daughters, n we wouldnt dare prove him wrong......Never once did he feel that we would have been on the wrong...He remained unfazed, inspite of having to severe relationships for havin chosen us over others......n if it werent for him, trust me, I wouldnt b where i am now.....

Mere words wud never be enough to describe what he meanz to me.....Hez an embodiment of patience.... Life without him is unthinkable...Teary eyed, I end this tribute to The Man In White, my DADDY-The Only Man I Truly Love.......

P.S: To the Man Im gonna Marry- Dont get intimidated by the above...You wouldnt have to worry abt me havin high expectations cuz I KNOW tat my Dad is WAY beyond comparison! :)


6 comments:

Winds of Change said...

now dat wuz 'A-W-E-S-U-M'....

JANE JEYAKUMAR said...

Amazin:D every woman's best man is indeed 'her dad':)
and every tyme i think of ma dad, therez a song on m MIND.. Its called 'butterfly kisses':)

Winds of Change said...

way ta go babe.....:D....

RoyalRajput_Singh said...

I think im one of those very few ppl who can understand this blog of urs very clearly...coz i hav seen ur craze for ur dad...
No doubt person u r gonna marry is going to get intimidated :)
Best wishes to all four in family from this friend ....

Prathiba said...

hey babes...
hmmm guess every daughter's first true and ever lasting love is her dad....
written really wellll babes....
keep rocking!!!!!
ciao:-)

The Techno Maniac said...

That explains how you re.. And i must say, you re really lucky to get a dad like that.. Not that the others are unlucky.. every one's dad is special.. yours is very special.. I say that, because I have met him too... And I have great respect for him.

And let me tell you one more thing.. Not all dad s are same. I have known few ppl s parents. Not that they are bad..No parent is bad.. They are very overly protective of their children, that they dont understand them. And your father has done the right thing.. I can say that knowing you, you d never do anything against your dad's wishes.. He knows you..After all you re his daughter.. a part of him..

To the guy who is going to marry her: "All the Best".. (And you, the bride, the writer of the blog-Dont read between the lines. I am just telling him (the poor soul who is going to marry you) that as much as he may try, he will not be able to take your dad's place.)And trust me madam, he will get intimidated.. Lets just hope he understands you.. A lot. Have I said some thing wrong.. well you know.. the usual stuff.. however.. i m happy that i have been truthful..

PS- Excuse me for deleting your previous comments.. Just got lots of thing to add on.. I stop with this..